For men

She’s pregnant. Now what?

Finding out she’s pregnant, or thinks she might be, can be overwhelming. It’s hard to know what to say or do, especially if this wasn’t something you planned. Whatever you’re going through right now, we can help you both figure out a way forward.

First things first

If she thinks she’s pregnant, medically confirming it is the first step. Eden provides pregnancy testing at no cost, along with a limited OB ultrasound to confirm a viable pregnancy.

What you can do

• Show up. You were part of this from the beginning. Let her know you’re still with her now.
• Go with her to her appointment, if she’s invited you. Ask questions about her options so you’re both working from the same information.
• Be honest about how you’re feeling: your hopes, your fears, even your uncertainty. It shows her she’s not facing this by herself.
• Make space for both of you to be heard even when you disagree about what’s next. You can share your perspective without forcing a decision.

“I’m fine with whatever you want” can feel like the right thing to say, like you’re respecting that the final decision is hers, and that you won’t try to control or sway her choice. But it can also leave her feeling like she has to figure this out alone.

You were both part of how you got here, and you’ll both be affected by what comes next. The healthiest path forward is one where you’re both fully informed, both heard, and both able to talk openly and respectfully about what’s next.

STI / STD testing

We offer STI/STD testing and treatment for men in a private setting. Protecting your health protects the people you love.

Just for DAD

Whether you’re becoming a dad for the first time or the fifth, Eden offers a free program to support and encourage men as they step into fatherhood. Led by a trained male advocate, Just for DAD is a chance to learn practical baby care skills, ask questions, and grow in confidence as a father.